{"id":1872,"date":"2014-12-26T08:41:38","date_gmt":"2014-12-26T06:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/?p=1872"},"modified":"2020-05-10T01:16:26","modified_gmt":"2020-05-09T23:16:26","slug":"annemin-son-ucusu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/?p=1872","title":{"rendered":"Annemin son u\u00e7u\u015fu"},"content":{"rendered":"

21 Aral\u0131k 2014 TK 2565 20,30 Dalaman \u0130stanbul Annemin son u\u00e7u\u015fundaki u\u00e7u\u015f numaras\u0131 ve saati. Asl\u0131nda geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda Annem t\u00fcm ya\u015fam\u0131nda bu son u\u00e7u\u015funun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 kere u\u00e7akla seyahat etmi\u015fti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Annemin<\/a>

Annemin vefat etti\u011fi bak\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k evi.<\/p><\/div>\n

U\u00e7ak ile ilk yolculu\u011fu, \u0130stanbul N\u00fcrnberg \u0130stanbul\u2019du. \u0130kinci u\u00e7u\u015fu \u0130stanbul K\u0131br\u0131s \u0130stanbul \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc \u0130stanbul Dalaman \u0130stanbul\u2019du. Ve kader Annemin bu son d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc u\u00e7u\u015funda tek y\u00f6n Dalaman \u0130stanbul olarak u\u00e7mas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc a\u011flar\u0131n\u0131. Tabutunu \u0130stanbul THY kargo binas\u0131ndan teslim al\u0131p Karaca Ahmet mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n morguna getirdi\u011fimde g\u00fcn pazartesiye d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f saat 01,30 u g\u00f6steriyordu. Annemin na\u2019\u015f\u0131n\u0131 morga yerle\u015ftirebilmek i\u00e7in tabuttan \u00e7\u0131kartmam\u0131z gerekti. E\u011freti kapat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f tabutun kapa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm manzara kendimi kaybetmeme yetti de art\u0131 bile \u2019\u2019EMPAT\u0130 Bak\u0131mevi ve Rehabilitasyon merkezi. \u2019\u2019Annemin \u00fczerindeki bluz ve aya\u011f\u0131ndaki pijamas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr g\u00f6rmez 16.12.2014 tarihinden bu g\u00fcne kadar k\u0131yafetlerinin de\u011fi\u015ftirilmedi\u011finin fark\u0131na vard\u0131m. Annem Bak\u0131mevinde vefat ettikten sonra \u00fczerindeki k\u0131yafetleri hatta bezini bile \u00e7\u0131kartma gere\u011fini duymadan oldu\u011fu gibi hasta hanenin morguna ve daha sonra da kapa\u011f\u0131 bile kapanmayan bir tabuta koyarak \u0130stanbul\u2019a g\u00f6ndermi\u015flerdi.<\/p>\n

\"Annemin<\/a>

Annemin kendinde olarak son veda etti\u011fi an.<\/p><\/div>\n

\u00d6lm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmayan insan ya\u015fayan insana da sayg\u0131l\u0131 olamaz der Avrupal\u0131lar. Beklide gus\u00fclhanede y\u0131kanana kadar aileden Bir\u2019inin cenazeyi g\u00f6rebilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmediler. \u0130smi Empati olan bu bak\u0131m evini i\u015fletenlere bu g\u00fcn basit bir tavsiyede bulunmal\u0131y\u0131m. L\u00fctfen benimle Empati yap\u0131n\u0131z yerimde olsayd\u0131n\u0131z ne yapard\u0131n\u0131z. 21.Kas\u0131m 2014 g\u00fcn\u00fc bak\u0131m evinize teslim etti\u011fim annemin bak\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131ktan vefat etti\u011fine inanaca\u011f\u0131m neredeyse. Cenazesine bile sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterememi\u015fken ya\u015fayan bir hastan\u0131za kim bilir nas\u0131l bakt\u0131n\u0131z ki 16 Aral\u0131kta ziyaret etti\u011fim annemin k\u0131yafetleri vefat etti\u011fi g\u00fcn yani 19.12.2014 23,45 ve Fethiye Devlet hastahanesine g\u00f6nderildi\u011fi 20.12.2014 tarihinden ba\u015flayarak 21.12. tarihinde, Annemin Na\u015f\u0131\u2019n\u0131n \u00fczerindeki k\u0131yafetler ile bire bir ayn\u0131yd\u0131. \u00d6ylesine ayn\u0131yd\u0131 ki \u00f6pt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ellerinin duru\u015f \u015fekli bile 16 Aral\u0131kta nas\u0131l duruyorsa 21 Aral\u0131kta da ayn\u0131 duruyordu. Alt\u0131na sermi\u015f olduklar\u0131 \u00e7ar\u015faf\u0131n pisli\u011finden ise bahis etmeye utan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Son ziyaretimde Annemin k\u00fcsk\u00fcn bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ne anlam ifade etti\u011fini \u015fimdi daha iyi anlayabiliyorum.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcng\u00f6r A\u011fabeyim Anneme art\u0131k evde bak\u0131lamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Profesyonel bak\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011finde do\u011fru gibi gelmi\u015fti. Sonu\u00e7ta Avrupa\u2019da bu t\u00fcr bak\u0131m evlerinde ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar \u00e7ok daha g\u00fczel daha iyi \u015fartlarda bak\u0131labiliyordu. A\u011fabeyimin Empati Bak\u0131m evi ve Rehabilitasyon merkezi hakk\u0131nda da \u00e7ok iyi \u015feylerden bahis etmesi hatta kay\u0131n validesinin bile ayn\u0131 bak\u0131m evinde olmas\u0131 b\u00f6yle bir karar vermemi kolayla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7ta A\u011fabeyimde annemin iyili\u011fini istiyordu. \u0130kimizinde g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir detay; \u00dclkemizde Profesyonel hasta Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131\u2019n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi idi. Bir de buna sevgisizli\u011fi ilave edersek Annemin bize de\u011fil sadece ya\u015fama k\u00fcst\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc \u015fimdi anlayabiliyorum. \u0130lk \u00fc\u00e7 hafta i\u00e7erisinde Telefonlar\u0131m\u0131za mutlu oldu\u011funa dair cevaplar veren Annem asl\u0131nda bizleri kand\u0131r\u0131yor, Babama kavu\u015fma arzusu ile yan\u0131p tutu\u015fuyor her t\u00fcrl\u00fc g\u0131da ve su al\u0131m\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yordu. Mahitap han\u0131m G\u00fczel anam huzur i\u00e7inde Ziya Bey\u2019ine kavu\u015ftun. Bundan sonraki ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u015fekerinden bir daha ayr\u0131lmaman i\u00e7in dua etmekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey gelmiyor elimden. Hani sana derdim ya Ziya bey seni istemiyor rahat\u0131 yerinde hurilerle keyif yap\u0131yor diye. i\u015fte hepsi yaland\u0131 asl\u0131nda bizi b\u0131rakmaman i\u00e7in uydurdu\u011fum k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalanlard\u0131.\"Annemin\"<\/a><\/p>\n

G\u00f6zleri a\u00e7\u0131k giden anam en az\u0131ndan aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce helalli\u011fini alabilmi\u015f olmam ac\u0131m\u0131 bir az olsun azalt\u0131yor. Can\u0131m anam Ebedi istirahatg\u00e2h\u0131nda huzur bulursun. Biliyorum sen nereye gidersen git nerede olursan ol g\u00f6zlerin hep sevdiklerinin \u00fczerinde olacak. Onlar\u0131n iyi olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in uzaklardan bile olsa \u00e7abal\u0131yacaks\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc yapamazs\u0131n. Hay\u0131r olmaz diyemezsin.<\/p>\n

Sen t\u00fcm ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 o\u011fluna sana ihtiyac\u0131 olan yak\u0131n akrabalar\u0131na hem evinde hemde kalbinde kocaman yerler a\u00e7t\u0131n. Kar\u015fl\u0131ks\u0131z sevmenin nas\u0131l bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frettin bizlere. En az\u0131ndan kendim bu dersi iyi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131ma inan\u0131yordum. Ah anam nas\u0131l olduda basiretim ba\u011flan\u0131p seni Fethiyedeki bak\u0131m evine b\u0131rakt\u0131m. Al\u0131p Ayval\u0131\u011fa getirmedim. \u015eimdi ke\u015fkelerle ya\u015fama zaman\u0131m. Ke\u015fke son nefesini verirken yan\u0131nda olabiilseydim seni Babam\u0131n yan\u0131na dualarla ellerimle u\u011furluya biseydim.<\/p>\n

\"Musalla<\/a>

Musalla ta\u015f\u0131nda tabutunda uyuyor<\/p><\/div>\n

\u00dc\u00e7 o\u011ful bir s\u00fcr\u00fc akraba sen bizleri eledin beledin b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcn sevgiyle evine kalbine s\u0131\u011fd\u0131rd\u0131n da biz seni hi\u00e7 bir yere s\u0131\u011fd\u0131ramad\u0131k be anam. Her zaman s\u00f6yledi\u011fin gibi kavu\u015ftun \u015fekerine umar\u0131m mutlusundur.<\/p>\n

Anam kimselere haber veremedi\u011fimiz halde ne kadar \u00e7ok sevenin oldu\u011funa \u015fahit oldum. Sevenlerin sa\u011f olsunlar bizleri yanl\u0131z b\u0131rakmad\u0131lar. \u015e\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun ki son\u00a0 g\u00f6revimizi yerine getirirken hep yan\u0131mzdayd\u0131lar her \u015fey tam istedi\u011fin gibi oldu Anam. Seni yerine yerle\u015ftirdikten sonra\u00a0 Ablam\u0131n evi doldu ta\u015ft\u0131. \u0130stedi\u011fin gibi herkesin tatl\u0131s\u0131yla tuzlusuyla karn\u0131 doydu dualarla yolculu\u011funda e\u015flik etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131lar. Benmi? benim de dualar\u0131m Babam ve seninle.18 y\u0131l aradan sonra \u00e7ok istedi\u011fin Babama kavu\u015ftun. Huzur i\u00e7inde \u0131\u015f\u0131klarla dinlenin. Nas\u0131l olsa g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde yan\u0131n\u0131za gelece\u011fim \u00f6yle senin gibi 18 y\u0131l falan s\u00fcrmez geli\u015fim.<\/p>\n

O kadar zaman sizi yanl\u0131z b\u0131rakamam. Babama da s\u00f6yle bana k\u0131zmas\u0131n daha fazla tutamad\u0131m seni buralarda nede olsa arnavut inad\u0131n varya. \u0130\u015fte anac\u0131m \u015fimdi sadece yoklu\u011funa al\u0131\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. H\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcm \u00f6yle her dakika de\u011filse bile akl\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde mahsunla\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Son\u00e7e o\u011flun<\/p>\n

Mehmet Tevfik<\/p>\n

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21 Aral\u0131k 2014 TK 2565 20,30 Dalaman \u0130stanbul Annemin son u\u00e7u\u015fundaki u\u00e7u\u015f numaras\u0131 ve saati. Asl\u0131nda geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda Annem t\u00fcm ya\u015fam\u0131nda bu son u\u00e7u\u015funun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 kere u\u00e7akla seyahat etmi\u015fti. U\u00e7ak ile ilk yolculu\u011fu, \u0130stanbul N\u00fcrnberg \u0130stanbul\u2019du. \u0130kinci u\u00e7u\u015fu \u0130stanbul K\u0131br\u0131s \u0130stanbul \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc \u0130stanbul Dalaman \u0130stanbul\u2019du. Ve kader Annemin bu son d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc u\u00e7u\u015funda tek […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1872"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1872"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1872\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1876,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1872\/revisions\/1876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1872"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1872"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1872"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}