{"id":549,"date":"2008-05-12T13:20:09","date_gmt":"2008-05-12T11:20:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/?p=549"},"modified":"2020-04-11T22:23:23","modified_gmt":"2020-04-11T20:23:23","slug":"degisen-nesil-ve-vurdum-duymazlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/?p=549","title":{"rendered":"DE\u011e\u0130\u015eEN NES\u0130L ve YANLIZLIK"},"content":{"rendered":"

Herkes ili\u015fkilerini tartar oldu yard\u0131mla\u015fmak\u2019sa hayal \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc gibi, dostluk kurmaya hevesli g\u00f6z\u00fckm\u00fcyor isanlar, belki de insan olman\u0131n gururu unutuldu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Yanl\u0131zl\u0131k\"<\/a>

Yanl\u0131zl\u0131k<\/p><\/div>\n

K\u00fct\u00fcrel yap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z farkl\u0131, Mesleklerimiz farkl\u0131, e\u011fitimimiz farkl\u0131, gurbet elde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fclkeler, \u015fehirler bile farkl\u0131 ya hissettiklerimiz..! De\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnyada ili\u015fkilerimiz bile farkl\u0131. \u0130li\u015fkilerin yasas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fmesin\u2019ki? biz insan olarak de\u011fi\u015fiyoruz. Duygusal ili\u015fkiden anlad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, de\u011fi\u015fiyor. En temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri g\u00fcven, g\u00fcvenmek, g\u00fcvenilmek ama, art\u0131k en \u00e7ok ya\u015fayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, en \u00e7ok ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, en eksik kalan sevgi de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Yava\u015f, yava\u015f klasik ili\u015fki modelleri, ortadan kalkacak gibi g\u00f6z\u00fck\u00fcyor. Endi\u015feliyim yerlerini ne alacak? <\/strong>Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nedir ve bizleri neler bekliyor?<\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u015fk\u2019ta; kimse tek gecelik ili\u015fkiler ya\u015famaya hevesli g\u00f6z\u00fckm\u00fcyor. Fakat kimse de ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ine dahil olmas\u0131na, tam olarak r\u0131za g\u00f6stermiyor. Eski T\u00fcrk filmlerinde ya\u015fanan a\u015fklar inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f bile olsa daha hala hafif bir tebess\u00fcmle de olsa izleniyor. Evet inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, bu kadar’da olmaz derken, i\u00e7imizde bir yerlere dokunuyor. \u00d6zledi\u011fimiz, hayal etti\u011fimiz, unutmaya mahkum edilmi\u015f duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tekrar\u00a0 ya\u015fayabilece\u011fimize dair umut ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir yerlere\u2026!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Libe\"<\/a>

A\u011fa\u00e7lar bile sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015fken<\/p><\/div>\n

Kendi ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 unutmu\u015f tekrar ya\u015famaya, korkular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belki filmlerde TV programlar\u0131nda, dizilerde izledi\u011fimiz yapay kahramanlar\u0131m\u0131zda m\u0131\u00a0ya\u015fatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Zavall\u0131 halimiz ve dost yoksullu\u011fumuz i\u00e7inde tutsak kalm\u0131\u015f\u0131z. Sadece tutkulu dostluklar\u0131n, sevginin ve a\u015fklar\u0131n, mutlu sonlar\u0131n anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 romanlar\u0131 okumaya itiyor bizi. Dedim ya mesleklerimiz farkl\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel yap\u0131m\u0131z farkl\u0131, e\u011fitimimiz farkl\u0131, hatta ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fehirler, \u00fclkeler, farkl\u0131. Geriye kalan tek bir \u015fey var; Hissettiklerimiz\u00a0 hep ayn\u0131\u2026! hayat\u0131m\u0131za bir \u015fekilde giren ileri teknoloji illetti, ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken, belkide kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z paralarla di\u011ferlerinden farkl\u0131 olman\u0131n, farkl\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fckmenin yollar\u0131n\u0131 arat\u0131yor bize. Daha l\u00fcks arabalara binerken, daha konforlu G\u00f6kdelenlerde, Dairelerde, evlerde ya\u015farken, ve daha \u00e7ok vitrinlere bakarken, daha \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011frenirken, art\u0131k her\u015feye daha \u00e7abuk sahip olabiliyorken, yaln\u0131zla\u015f\u0131yoruz galiba. Daha bir vurdum duymazm\u0131 oluyoruz hayata?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Birine kendini anlatmak zordur; hatta onu hayat\u0131na sokmak daha da zor gelir insana. Bir de onun hayat\u0131na girmek istersen, birlikte yeni bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frenmek, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz de yeni yerler g\u00f6rmek, onu daha yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131mak, ondaki g\u00fczellikleri ke\u015ffetmek i\u00e7in emek harcamak, bazen hatalar\u0131n\u0131 ho\u015f g\u00f6rmek, bazen hata yapmak, kar\u015f\u0131ndakini incitmemek u\u011fruna, yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmamak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba sarfetmek, hastayken ona bakmak, g\u00fczel bir iki laf etmek, bize giderek daha m\u0131 zor geliyor acaba?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bencille\u015ftik hayat\u0131 hi\u00e7 yorulmadan, hi\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden ya\u015famak istiyoruz. Kimse gelip d\u00fczenimizi bozmamal\u0131, biz kimse i\u00e7in fedakarl\u0131k yapmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Kimseye i\u00e7imizi a\u00e7mamal\u0131, yard\u0131m eli uzatmamal\u0131y\u0131z.Kimsenin s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na, dertlerine ortak olmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Art\u0131k kimseyi mutlu etmek i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015f vermemeliyiz. Zaten bizim bizden ba\u015fka kimimiz var\u2019ki? Peki, hi\u00e7 sebep yokken, i\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, uykusuz gecelerimizin, durduk yerde a\u011flamakl\u0131 olmam\u0131z\u0131n, bizden \u00e7ok uzakta cam ekran\u0131n arkas\u0131nda, sanal alemde dost ve mutluluk aramam\u0131z\u0131n nedeni nedir? \u00a0Derinden hissetti\u011fimiz yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, vurdum duymazl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z stres\u2019in nedeni\u2026!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeni D\u00fcnya d\u00fczenin\u2019de yeni ve eski neslin yakaland\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeni bir vir\u00fcs\u00fcn ilk belirtileri olsa gerek. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ne dersiniz dostlar?
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mehmet Tevfik \u00d6zkartal<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Bu yaz\u0131; ”Gazete Bayern”\u00a0 26 Mart 2010 tarihinde Yazarlar\u0131m\u0131z kategorisi alt\u0131nda yay\u0131nland\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Herkes ili\u015fkilerini tartar oldu yard\u0131mla\u015fmak\u2019sa hayal \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc gibi, dostluk kurmaya hevesli g\u00f6z\u00fckm\u00fcyor isanlar, belki de insan olman\u0131n gururu unutuldu. K\u00fct\u00fcrel yap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z farkl\u0131, Mesleklerimiz farkl\u0131, e\u011fitimimiz farkl\u0131, gurbet elde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fclkeler, \u015fehirler bile farkl\u0131 ya hissettiklerimiz..! De\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnyada ili\u015fkilerimiz bile farkl\u0131. \u0130li\u015fkilerin yasas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fmesin\u2019ki? biz insan olarak de\u011fi\u015fiyoruz. Duygusal ili\u015fkiden anlad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, de\u011fi\u015fiyor. En […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=549"}],"version-history":[{"count":28,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2565,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549\/revisions\/2565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=549"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=549"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/xn--zkartal-80a.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=549"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}